I have many goals

I have many goals and areas of interest I want to pursue but find myself stuck with handling bills and paperwork. It seems like I am making only slow progress toward any of my goals. I am trying to follow the steps of the self leader and wonder if there are any tips for staying on target. My goals include paying down debt, investing in real estate, rebuilding our family remodeling business and raising a sane teenager. Happiness for me and my husband seem to be an after thought.