Question

I am a woman who was fascinated by the question from a woman who wondered how she could go about “finding her essence” and other categories of integrative thinking. Unless I misunderstood the answer, the thought as I read it was that I would discover myself through my relationship with a man who has reached self-directed behaviors and attitudes. When I read (not all, but some) of the large manual that came in the mail, all of what I read seemed to be male oriented. Am I wrong? I do hope so.